It's All About Love

How do you know if you are already in love? Most people argue that although in love with someone does not grasp that there is no doubt in their minds the existing one. Indeed, if the question of whether or not, you're in love, then you are definitely not.

Although I do not doubt for one second that his in love (probably one of those sad people who still experience), I am a little perplexed on our perception of what the humanities wanted more from the experience.

For me, that someone with love is a decision on the basis of the twinning with its own predetermined criteria or preferences.

I refer to the first step in the selection of partners, such as the "Terminator glasses phase, as they pass through a filter potential mate attributes and compares off the coast of the violation of our own preference.

On the New Years Eve just adopted, I went for a meeting with friends in a bar, where we celebrate in the evening. There were waiting at the door with my friend, I saw him for the first time. I have a quick analysis Terminator: Height: 6 feet around. MATCH. Build: Not too thin, not too fat, and not too buff. MATCH. Hair: dark brown short. Went up more than David Beckham “MATCH”. Complexion: Dark Olive. MATCH. Flews: Plump. MATCH. Smile: Oh my God. MATCH. Eyes: Large, brown, expressive, with long eyelashes thick. Match! Position: Light, not cocky. MATCH. Nation: It is clear, foreign, probably in Brazil. MATCH.

With the Terminator glasses always firmly planted on my face, Brazil has confirmed, was in the changeover to the second part of the first phase: The interaction. It is often the deadliest of all potential relationship, because every sentence, with all look and every movement is through the filter of the Terminator glasses. Each could miss a game to premature death of the relationship. Very little is during this part, especially when a program amounts to long-term mate. "With these words, it is also my favorite part of the process, because it is more fun. I think this is a game we know that we play, but refuse, as existing. You can do this for the game at any time, without consequences (which is, of course, if both parties work under the same set of rules. If this is not the case with some phone numbers recorded side effects, followed by some awkward conversations. And from a low - undesirable data followed by unwanted kiss, perhaps the termination of unwanted sexual intercourse.

Second step: "The pink color glasses phase, is extremely dangerous and will not normally be treated with caution, as one of the two candidates. Depending on the impact of the phase, bombs disaster warning relationship" could be abandoned just before the eyes another let-established. Everything seems and is unchangeable, everything feasible. Despite my cynicism, this step is the challenge more upset that the Terminator phase, well-being lacé with the fear that everything ends well. Premature "I love you" to escape into the hole, falling like a ball on a roulette table. The stakes are high, but it could also very well bear fruit, and go to the third phase. Or not…

Declare the title of the third phase is difficult. And the truth is, I do not know how to call it, because I'm on the road to the Green output at the staircase of assistance before they say, "I marry."

My experience with the Level three is that I have the habit to achieve Mr Perfect is human. I will resist him, just to accept as it is, and try to point out where it is missing (it is usually not so open, my constructive criticism. I wonder why?). Of course, this does not mean that his ways to change, but finds itself in the soil in them (and me resentment in the process). The love and commitment and will of fear and dependency. Some travel to the battle at the end, the head more for the right exit green light.

Pretending on this point, "fell from love". My argument is that they have never been in love in the first place. One of my favorite movies, "Moulin Rouge", melodic, "The biggest thing you learn never see, the love, and back to his beloved". I think that is what we think, be in love for all. However, to be loved in turn requires that a state to give of your love. Thus, the romantic love is love. If only the romantic love is a sense, the so-called love is not shared or even "desperate".

What if I said that the real love cannot? And inside that true love cannot be that the acceptance of 100% of the issue, as they are and how they are not. And if love, real love, love is everything?