How do you know if you are already in love? Most people argue that although in love with someone does not grasp that there is no doubt in their minds the existing one. Indeed, if the question of whether or not, you're in love, then you are definitely not.
Although I do not doubt for one second that his in love (probably one of those sad people who still experience), I am a little perplexed on our perception of what the humanities wanted more from the experience.
For me, that someone with love is a decision on the basis of the twinning with its own predetermined criteria or preferences.
I refer to the first step in the selection of partners, such as the "Terminator glasses phase, as they pass through a filter potential mate attributes and compares off the coast of the violation of our own preference.
On the New Years Eve just adopted, I went for a meeting with friends in a bar, where we celebrate in the evening. There were waiting at the door with my friend, I saw him for the first time. I have a quick analysis Terminator: Height: 6 feet around. MATCH. Build: Not too thin, not too fat, and not too buff. MATCH. Hair: dark brown short. Went up more than David Beckham “MATCH”. Complexion: Dark Olive. MATCH. Flews: Plump. MATCH. Smile: Oh my God. MATCH. Eyes: Large, brown, expressive, with long eyelashes thick. Match! Position: Light, not cocky. MATCH. Nation: It is clear, foreign, probably in Brazil. MATCH.
With the Terminator glasses always firmly planted on my face, Brazil has confirmed, was in the changeover to the second part of the first phase: The interaction. It is often the deadliest of all potential relationship, because every sentence, with all look and every movement is through the filter of the Terminator glasses. Each could miss a game to premature death of the relationship. Very little is during this part, especially when a program amounts to long-term mate. "With these words, it is also my favorite part of the process, because it is more fun. I think this is a game we know that we play, but refuse, as existing. You can do this for the game at any time, without consequences (which is, of course, if both parties work under the same set of rules. If this is not the case with some phone numbers recorded side effects, followed by some awkward conversations. And from a low - undesirable data followed by unwanted kiss, perhaps the termination of unwanted sexual intercourse.
Second step: "The pink color glasses phase, is extremely dangerous and will not normally be treated with caution, as one of the two candidates. Depending on the impact of the phase, bombs disaster warning relationship" could be abandoned just before the eyes another let-established. Everything seems and is unchangeable, everything feasible. Despite my cynicism, this step is the challenge more upset that the Terminator phase, well-being lacé with the fear that everything ends well. Premature "I love you" to escape into the hole, falling like a ball on a roulette table. The stakes are high, but it could also very well bear fruit, and go to the third phase. Or not…
Declare the title of the third phase is difficult. And the truth is, I do not know how to call it, because I'm on the road to the Green output at the staircase of assistance before they say, "I marry."
My experience with the Level three is that I have the habit to achieve Mr Perfect is human. I will resist him, just to accept as it is, and try to point out where it is missing (it is usually not so open, my constructive criticism. I wonder why?). Of course, this does not mean that his ways to change, but finds itself in the soil in them (and me resentment in the process). The love and commitment and will of fear and dependency. Some travel to the battle at the end, the head more for the right exit green light.
Pretending on this point, "fell from love". My argument is that they have never been in love in the first place. One of my favorite movies, "Moulin Rouge", melodic, "The biggest thing you learn never see, the love, and back to his beloved". I think that is what we think, be in love for all. However, to be loved in turn requires that a state to give of your love. Thus, the romantic love is love. If only the romantic love is a sense, the so-called love is not shared or even "desperate".
What if I said that the real love cannot? And inside that true love cannot be that the acceptance of 100% of the issue, as they are and how they are not. And if love, real love, love is everything?
Monday, September 8, 2008
Saturday, June 14, 2008
A perfect life
Once I had a very close friend has asked me to genes, the sharing of information with him to create their experiences with perfect life. No update of course negative, and the circumstances, I have tried.
Some years later he went to me and was excited that we came as close as possible. He believes, as it is completely free and live their dream of life, almost. Of course, he had some costs for the livelihood for the goods and services purchased and there were the taxes and insurance, but the living experience or a part really touched, as a living being has improved considerably.
So long and so well that genes actually benefit from the living experience. He was free to go beyond the pleasure and freedom and the knowledge and agreement of this conviction, it would be able to survive financially for the rest of his life to eliminate many of the pressures and concerns that he had given the so many years.
It is important that genes knew what was honest and fill it with happiness.
It was not a country moving radical changes, but a number of changes and the structure of the amendments made to this place of happiness. The process and the potential is always there, but he did not know and is not trying for himself or was simply distracted by the process of life.
Sometimes, people do. They are so vivid in the experience that they forget to get a life, which they owned. People are so focused on the progress that they can not see, they have already exceeded their goal. If they slow change and its resources properly a way of life is convenient to take.
In the case of genes, he moved to the city in a country. He has the big focus for the house of the quiet countryside and has been removed, and the financial commitment of the burdens that prevent the people from the configuration of the rules for revenue difficult.
Every day when he awoke, a new adventure, a new experience of the sun and butterflies. Instead of traffic from road and chatter he heard the birds in the trees at night and his family enjoy the peace and quiet solitude, glowworms. The children can play on grass and without fear of the night, when Gene went to bed, there was no fear of the upcoming day. It was mentally, emotionally and physically free, totally free and fortunately in a position to survive.
The survival and freedom of basic human needs. Once you fill these two needs of the rest of your life begins in line to get in order. The stress, pressure and confusion eliminated, as you free time with the planning and management of your own experience of life. These requirements are, what you have to focus on the income and production of sources of income. People want a job and need a reward.
What you really want to live? Is it the pay or is it the result. Position that the fact of living, and you get the feeling to live in the quality of time. Think of a time when you were sitting in the summer holidays, and how it says, not before the interests and concerns of life a little disappointed that little time. No work, no telephone and nothing can distract you exactly what you want, when you want and whenever you want.
Gene took the view that every day. He has his life changed in this situation in reality. Every day is one day leave to genes and he was free to come and go as the pleasure. He has certain obligations, but the time taken, as it easier and more organized, so that they are not eaten his free time.
Gene, when he was still a young man, but the memory of the way up to him, and I thank you for the registration itself and the releasing live an experience that was rich and the joy is back fresh as if they happened yesterday. Another person having an impact on the lives of so positive is one of responsibility and respect for the feelings that a human being.
Life is better than intelligent life, and you have to learn to take control of your own experiences with life. No, the decisions and the results of the other way to your life. The development of a clear vision of what works and fill out the luck, and then on your lifestyle and modes, this vision a reality.
Some years later he went to me and was excited that we came as close as possible. He believes, as it is completely free and live their dream of life, almost. Of course, he had some costs for the livelihood for the goods and services purchased and there were the taxes and insurance, but the living experience or a part really touched, as a living being has improved considerably.
So long and so well that genes actually benefit from the living experience. He was free to go beyond the pleasure and freedom and the knowledge and agreement of this conviction, it would be able to survive financially for the rest of his life to eliminate many of the pressures and concerns that he had given the so many years.
It is important that genes knew what was honest and fill it with happiness.
It was not a country moving radical changes, but a number of changes and the structure of the amendments made to this place of happiness. The process and the potential is always there, but he did not know and is not trying for himself or was simply distracted by the process of life.
Sometimes, people do. They are so vivid in the experience that they forget to get a life, which they owned. People are so focused on the progress that they can not see, they have already exceeded their goal. If they slow change and its resources properly a way of life is convenient to take.
In the case of genes, he moved to the city in a country. He has the big focus for the house of the quiet countryside and has been removed, and the financial commitment of the burdens that prevent the people from the configuration of the rules for revenue difficult.
Every day when he awoke, a new adventure, a new experience of the sun and butterflies. Instead of traffic from road and chatter he heard the birds in the trees at night and his family enjoy the peace and quiet solitude, glowworms. The children can play on grass and without fear of the night, when Gene went to bed, there was no fear of the upcoming day. It was mentally, emotionally and physically free, totally free and fortunately in a position to survive.
The survival and freedom of basic human needs. Once you fill these two needs of the rest of your life begins in line to get in order. The stress, pressure and confusion eliminated, as you free time with the planning and management of your own experience of life. These requirements are, what you have to focus on the income and production of sources of income. People want a job and need a reward.
What you really want to live? Is it the pay or is it the result. Position that the fact of living, and you get the feeling to live in the quality of time. Think of a time when you were sitting in the summer holidays, and how it says, not before the interests and concerns of life a little disappointed that little time. No work, no telephone and nothing can distract you exactly what you want, when you want and whenever you want.
Gene took the view that every day. He has his life changed in this situation in reality. Every day is one day leave to genes and he was free to come and go as the pleasure. He has certain obligations, but the time taken, as it easier and more organized, so that they are not eaten his free time.
Gene, when he was still a young man, but the memory of the way up to him, and I thank you for the registration itself and the releasing live an experience that was rich and the joy is back fresh as if they happened yesterday. Another person having an impact on the lives of so positive is one of responsibility and respect for the feelings that a human being.
Life is better than intelligent life, and you have to learn to take control of your own experiences with life. No, the decisions and the results of the other way to your life. The development of a clear vision of what works and fill out the luck, and then on your lifestyle and modes, this vision a reality.
Saturday, June 7, 2008
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Friday, May 23, 2008
Love of a Mother
There are moments where only a love of the mother
Maybe understand our tears,
Can we help to calm disappointed
And rest all our fears.
There are moments where only a love of the mother
Can the joy we feel
If something we dreamed
Quite suddenly real.
There are moments in which only a faith of the mother
Can we help the lives of so
And by the trust
We need from day to day.
For a heart of the mother and the mother in faith
And the mother of a love
There have been shaped by the angels
And sent by God on ..
Maybe understand our tears,
Can we help to calm disappointed
And rest all our fears.
There are moments where only a love of the mother
Can the joy we feel
If something we dreamed
Quite suddenly real.
There are moments in which only a faith of the mother
Can we help the lives of so
And by the trust
We need from day to day.
For a heart of the mother and the mother in faith
And the mother of a love
There have been shaped by the angels
And sent by God on ..
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
What's Love???
The word love can be a variety of different meanings, but used in different contexts. Often, other languages, using different words to express some of the different approaches of English depends primarily on love capsules, an example is the plurality of Greek words for "love". Cultural differences in the concept of love so it is doubly difficult to determine, each universal definition. American Psychologist Zick Rubin try to define, by the love of psychometrics. His work reflects that love consititute three factors: installation, maintenance and intimacy. Although the nature or essence of love is a subject of debate often, the various aspects of the word can be settled only by the determination is not "love". In general expression of the positive average (a form of greater like), love is often in opposition to hate (or apathy neutral), as less sexual and more intimate emotion the form of the romantic placement , Love is commonly contrast with the desire and the interpersonal relationship with traits romantic love is commonly contrasted with friendship, even if other definitions of the word love can be applied to close friendships, certain contexts. If, in short, love of the rule refers to interpersonal love, experience, the time from one person to another person. Love, often, care or identification of a person or object, including himself (cf. narcissism). In addition crosscultural differences in understanding love, ideas about love have changed over time high. Some historians modern conceptions of the date of the imperial court to romantic love Europe during or after the Middle Ages, even if the prior existence of the romantic annexes, is evidenced by love of ancient poetry. Given the complex and abstract nature of love, the discourse on love is usually reduced to a thought of ending a cliché, and there are a number of common sayings about love, Virgil's "Love conquers all" the Beatles "All you need is love." Bertrand Russell described love as a condition for the "absolute", as opposed to relative value. Theologian Thomas Jay Oord said that it is to love the "intentional act, in response to other friendly, promoting the general welfare." In the Holy Bible Corinthians Love is defined as follows: If I speak in the languages of men and angels, but have not love, I am only a radiant Gong or a pond to beat. If I have the gift of prophecy and can not understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but not yet love, I am nothing. If I give everything that I am in possession of the poor and surrender my body on fire, but have not love, I'm not win. Love is patient, love is nature. This is not the desire not to boast, they are not proud. It is not coarse, it is not clear, seeks, it is not easily angered, there is no trace of evil. Love not the joy evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trust, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never failed. But where there are prophecies, they are no longer where there are languages, they are still where we know it will pass. For we know, in part, and we predict in part, but if perfection, the imperfections disappear. When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought as a child, I reasoned as a child. If I became a man, I have a child behind me. Now we see, but as a poor reflection in a mirror, then we will see face to face. Now, I know, in part, then I'll know, just as I am myself in its entirety. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the biggest of these is love. A person can be said that love is a country which, in principle, or destination, if you appreciate a lot and are very committed. Furthermore, compassionate reach of workers and volunteers "love" of their cause may not be at the expense of interpersonal love, but love impersonal associated with altruism and strong political convictions. You can also "love" of material objects, animals, or activities, if they invest in collage or identification of this element. If the sexual passion is also to these Paraphilie called the state. |
Love is....
Love presents a series of emotions and human experience, as regards the meaning of love and sexual attraction. The word love on many different emotions, state and attitudes, generic joy intense interpersonal attraction. This diversity of meanings, combined with feelings of the complexity involved, love makes it somewhat difficult to define consistently, even in comparison with other emotional states.
How one abstract concept of love, usually refers to a strong sense of the ineffable direction of another person. Even this limited perception of love, but includes a host of different emotions, impassioned by the desire and the intimacy of romantic love to nonsexual. What is love in its various forms plays the role of mediator important interpersonal relationships and emotional because of its central importance, is one of the most creative in the arts.
How one abstract concept of love, usually refers to a strong sense of the ineffable direction of another person. Even this limited perception of love, but includes a host of different emotions, impassioned by the desire and the intimacy of romantic love to nonsexual. What is love in its various forms plays the role of mediator important interpersonal relationships and emotional because of its central importance, is one of the most creative in the arts.
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